Forgive and Forget

Forgive and forget

=Forgive the person,forget the mistake and start friendship again

Or

Forgive and forget

= Forgive yourselves and forget the person and never get back into that gone friendship.

Which defination is better??
Comment!

Happy reading

Yours loving warrior

Naina

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Unique Blogger Award 2017

Hello scribblers..,

I am very glad that you people like my post and I inspired you for reading. But there are few who inspire me for writing and one of them is..

Mr. sarvottam kumar 

I am feeling very thankful to him, that He liked my scribbles and nominated me for this unique blogger award 2017 for the first time..  I like his writing because I can easily connect myself to his opinions…. Do visit his blog… Here is the link.. ****talecity****

Now Rules are as follows:

  • Share the link of the blogger who has shown love to you by nominating you.
  • Answer the questions.
  • In the spirit of sharing love and solidarity with our blogging family, nominate 8-13 people for the same ward.
  • Ask them 3 questions.

    Now answer to sarvottam’s questions

    ●Que◆You write…Is it your profession or passion?

    ●Ans●Neither its my profession nor passion its just another hobby that generated in me when I was facing a tough time in my life…

    ●Que◆Had you ever gone through a situation where you had have to think between career (not in writing) and writing?

    ●Ans●Never… Because I think its not my cup of tea

    ●Que◆What you think about my blog? Is there any suggestion to upgrade my writing? Any unique thing you find in my blog?

    ●Ans●Your blog is perfect combination of reality “for a connect” and fantasy “for amusement”…. I like your blog… I can easily connect myself to your writings..  I don’t think you need any upgradation… Its all perfect… More over.. how can I suggest something to you as now I am also in learning stage. And you are the one who liked my blog, my scribbles, my posts and nominated me for this awesome award. Thanks a lot for this…

    Now its time for my questions to the nominees….

    1. What is the inspiration behind your writing and why you opt internet blogging?
    2. Tell me the incidence that made you a blogger in wordpress?
    3. What do you find in my scribbles and why you like it?

      Finally the time for nominees

      1. warrior naina
      2. rosemary marie
      3. Brown Girl
      4. koolkosher kitchen
      5. pupazzovi
      6. child of cynicism
      7. afzal moolla
      8. atrangi zindagi ek safar
      9. ankur chaudhari
      10. Mehul Singla
      11. books, books and more books
      12. prankies
      13. I also want to nominate विमला की कलम but unable to do as not getting proper link for it

        That’s all from my side… So thankyou sarvottam. It was nice talking to you…

        And for nominees go ahead and repost this on your blog…

        Thanks & Regards

        Virus_miki

        Raksha Bandhan

        What is the actual meaning of Raksha Bandhan

        Perhaps it means that the person to whom she is tieing the belt or Rakhi, will protect her….

         
         

        •  परन्तु क्या केवल इतने मात्र से उस तथा कथित बहन का रक्षण  सुनिश्चित हो जाता है…..

        आज एक दिल दहला देने वाली खबर पढ़ी, तो कई प्रकार के सवाल मन में एक साथ उमड़ पड़े….।।।

           This is the screenshot of the very related news….
        वो खबर कुछ यूँ थी कि कल {रक्षाबन्धन वाले दिन,07.08.2017 को} CRPF के जवान, जिनपर हमें गर्व होता है, और साथ ही ये विश्वास भी कि वे तत्पर हैं सदा हमारे रक्षण को…..   उनका बड़ा ही घिनौना चेहरा सामने आया हैै, जिससे मन में ये सवाल भी आने लगे कि क्या ये ही मतलब है हमारे इस राष्ट्र में रक्षा बन्धन का, रक्षा के इस वचन का……

         क्या यही काम की अपेक्षा करें हम अपनी सेना {CRPF} से….

          अब कृपया आप ही प्रकाश डालें, और मेरी व्यथा को समाप्त करें…….

              आपके उत्तर के लिए प्रतीक्षित

                                   :    आशुसुधा

        Friendship 

        Though your every action get judged 

        But you are always accepted

        Friendship is a relation

        Where you can never feel rejected

        Here warmth only grows

        And with laughters 

        your heart glows brighter

        Friendship is such a comforting act

        Where you can always feel lighter

        Forgetting friends is stupidity 

        Kindly accept this universal fact

        You will need them always

        So, never forget your friendship pact.

        Happy reading!

        Yours loving warrior

        Naina

        रक्षाबंधन

        Its a hindu festival… Celebrated in INDIA

        आज के दिन एक बहन अपने भाई से रक्षा का प्रण लेती है ।

        और फिर वो ही भाई किसी दूसरी लड़की की आबरू को तार तार करता है ।

        लड़कियों की रक्षा नहीं इज़्ज़त करिये , और उसे सक्षम बनाइये ।

        #happy rakshabandhan….

        And think… कि ऐसा क्या हुआ होगा जो सब कुछ हस्ते हुए सहन करने वाली सबल नारी को एक लड़के की ज़रुरत पड़ि स्वयं को बचाने के लिये।

        Think and do let me know your views in the comments section below..

        Thanks & Regards

        Virus _miki

        Your post today again initiated the feminist in me

        You have such a valid point…This promise for raksha reflects women being insufficient to protect themselves.

        Though I admit your logic but also I would say that being “too critical” to festivals may be is incorrect because..festivals are basically meant for celebration of  love between busy routines.

        Keep cherishing bonds..

        Sibling or cousins…brothers or sisters hardly matters or if that is just a friend who turned rakhi brother…Again all this detailing to the relations hardly matters.

        What matter is the bond…And celebration is for regenerating warmth every year simply.

        And promise about रक्षा goes with promise of forever warmth and care by sister.

        Keep scribbling miki!

        Like always your inquisitive scribbles make everyone think.

        Happy reading readers

        Yours loving warrior

        Naina

        Time Controversy 

        As now I am facing quite tough time of my life… And everyone is worried for me…. 

        They keep giving me lot of advice…

        Being a good listener I keep listening and thinking…

        So the thoughts strike my mind are…..

        Big things take time…

        Patience is the key to virtues.

        And last not the least and my favorite

        Time and tide wait for none…

        So my question to my readers and repliers are..

        If time doesn’t wait for anyone then having patience is wasting time…

        Or if I am taking more time to decide it mean I am wasting, or something very big is going to come….

        So… Strom your brain hard and let me know your views in the comments section below… 

        Thanks & regards

        Virus_miki

        Love…

        Love doesn’t mean to always be with someone

        Love is 

        To stay in flashback of someone

        It is To keep Missing someone

        Sit alone and think of someone

        Dance in musical memories of someone

        Sing with melodious memories of someone

        Cook for the foody stomach of someone

        Get dressed well just be clicked and to show someone

        Smile like an idiot in the sweet memories of someone

        Talk to oneself about likes and dislikes of someone

        Adjust oneself just to be like someone

        Waiting for one call or text from someone

        Getting angry alone for not being missed by someone

        Trying stupid things just to remind that you miss someone

        Rewind and play the lovely memory of someone…

        Recollecting all the time spent with someone and just flow with the essence of love….

        Was sitting alone and this comes up….

        Do let me know your favorite memory with your someone…{love, friend, mother, father, brother,sister or anyone} In the comments section below…

        Thanks & regards

        Virus_miki

        CITY OF JOY

        City of joy is the blissful voyage,

        Essence of joy is mixed in its ether….

        The Howrah Bridge seems like to smile and welcome souls with open arms,

        The city serves the big and small communities, group, and religion equally,

        As the city itself born from small villages to the metropolitan…..

        Like the struggle in individuals life for survival,

        The city has struggled too between battles, poverty and pace of modernization,

        Just to get marked as the metropolitan in the map of our country…….

        The history of the city can amaze you from every end,

        The food can delight you from every blend,

        Fishes becomes the first love to gratify people’s appetite,

        The street foods compliments the new trend and taste of the different tongues,

        The roads give the path to explore the city,

        And get drown in the cherishing mood of the city,

        The city seems bit slow but rejoices you all through,

        The Ghats culture of the city is highly cherished by every age group,

        The ships and boats flows in the tranquility of the river,

        The scenes from dawn to dusk grab the heart away,

        The city can’t let anyone sleep with hungry stomach,

        It has the capability to endorse the life of rich and meager,

        The love and joy reflects from the outlook of the people,

        Its culture portrays its serenity,

        And let anyone to take dip in its bliss without any bias,

        As it is Kolkata the city of joy………….

        Anger

        After a long break.. today I met with anger…. Which led me to think… Why this happen with me… Then suddenly two thoughts cross over my mind…

        अपनी अक्षमता {असहाय, बेबस, लाचार}का प्रदर्शन ही क्रोध है।

        हम गुस्सा उन्हीं पर करते हैं जिन्हें अपना समझते है ।

        So I just want to know what actually anger is…?? How it can be defined…?? When it occurs…?? Why it occur..?? 

        Do let me know your views…in the comments section below….

        Thanks & Regards

        Virus _miki

        Great opening miki…

        “After long break you met it”,that means you already know to forgive,forget and control anger..

        And “which led me think why it happens” shows you introspect…Which most of us forget to do.

        Coming to your defination..you have defined well but reading that two questions arose in my mind..असहाय तो रोता भी है सिर्फ गुस्सा नहीं करता,चुपचाप सहता भी है सिर्फ गुस्सा नहीं करता और कोशिश में फिर जुट जाता है सिर्फ गुस्सा नहीं करता।

        रही बात अपनो पे ही गुस्सा आने वाली बात तो आ तो किसी पे भी सकता है,बस हम जिसपे जाता सकते हैं उसी पे जताते हैं बाकियों से तो बस दूरी बढ़ा लेते हैं।

        Though I don’t know to define it…all I am sure about anger is it releases negativity,we should try and avoid as far as possible…

        Instead if possible never speak when angry….This is a very ancient wisdom but it works… Whether it’s a friend or foe..one should never release it on anyone because the things you never want…will get conveyed in anger…..and anger will go but your words will never leave their impact completely.So, better..go in some silent place and come out when you are cooled.

         And my question is “Is getting rid of anger in such a way that it never returns backis it humanly possible?” If your answer is no then avoiding and controling is only possible solution.

        Lastly I end sharing something I wrote few days back..When I had ha huge encounter with my anger and I repented for yelling in anger.

        Kash! mai kabhi galat bol hi nai pati 

        Happy reading readers

        Keep scribbling miki

        Yours loving warrior

        Naina